Make sure they remove the pump and clean the filter/screen.
So took my car in this morning to have the diff service amongst other things. I asked them to remove the pump and clean the filter, as you suggested. A tech came out and said no, we won't do that, only the oil change. He said VW don't ask us to and tbf, the service schedule shown elsewhere on this thread only says change oil. As I'm signing up for the All in offer, I've agreed to this, on the basis that if the diff goes wrong in next couple of years, due to gungy filter say, I'm covered.