Its a bit late now as the car is almost apart, new discs and pads are on and the turbo is being collected today, refurbed and fitting kit as quoted above, as for the rest ill be honest I have no faith and don't want to be in this situation anytime soon so im just going to do it.
compressions were at 150 apart from 1 cylinder at 130 but the problem is if I drive away and the valve stem seals are gone then all this will tip me over the edge.
he is a family friend and he is extremely good, so I trust him, at least it will be all done properly
I know that there were other options but no one lived closer and and we all have jobs I assume....
thanks for all your help guys I really appreciate it.
ill update as I go along and hopefully be done for thursday