Guys, something else I've just noticed that seems a bit weird. Does your gear stick feel quite loose when in gear, 2nd is probably the worst, I've done a video, it seems to go into gear fine, if I'm being picky it's a bit noisy but it's always gone straight into gear
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9QhyGziY1J4
Cheers 
Plllllllease? Someone with a mk6, preferably a GTI, but any will do? 
Need to know whether to take it back to VW or not. 
Just a thought... Does the dealership you take you car to not have another gti on the sitting on the forecourt that you can drive with one of the mechanics so you can compare etc?
Cheers guys. That's my next thought, if I somehow managed to get a GTI for the week if they have one there, used or whatever, and if I cannot replicate the "problems" then it puts no doubt in my mind that it's my car, but if I can then I'll have to accept them as "features" lol
Thanks for checking all, kinda sh1tty that it moves around so much. I'm still going to see if anything can be done about it, but glad (in a way) to know it's not just me.