I prefer the ride / handling of the 17's on a Gti to 18's.
I had my old Gti on 17's on GSD Asy's and the feedback and handling were awesome, especially when turning hard into a corner the steering wheel relayed exactly what the front wheels were doing. However the stability was lost compared to 18's , the car felt a bit wobbly at higher speeds and under hard braking from high speed on imperfect roads , the back end would twitch/swing out !!
Also 17's had less road noise and the ride was very comfortable.
On 18's you get better stability at high speeds and a much more stable car under acceleration and de acceleration but the steering does feel abit artificial but after a month you get used to it.
I would go for 17's if all that mattered was handling but 18's a re good comprimise aesthetically speaking !