Doubt it's that, they are fecking tight. I literally lifted the car off the axle stand undoing it.
Needs to be a 90 degree, not at all bent, bar and it will slowly loosen.
If it's THAT bad just angle grind the showing threads.
You tried to undo the nut when the car was on stands?
You're a braver man than me 
Bit difficult not to when you only have three wheels on the car.
It was fine, people just need to grow a pair, that's all. What's the worse that can happen? A car about to be scrapped falling on it's brake disc/chassis.
OMFG.
What happened to the wheel then?
Its nothing to do with growing a pair, its about working safely.
Work how you want, it doesn't bother me
