aye vr top mounts are the same as standard gti mk3 ones. the 'vr wunz r betah' myth came from the corrado vr6 i recon, since they got the mk3 gti top mounts whereas the 4 pot models had the mk2 g60 top mounts.
I'm wondering if the circlip on one of the shocks or the upper spring plate has gone, alowing the shock to go up inside the car. open the boot and check the shock top cups both sides