Dpf are one most diesels.
I have a 56 plate fr seat and has dpf.
Been looking at getting a dpf delete but its rather pricey.
As for the whole diesel hatred thing each person like what they like. For me diesel is the only option right now unless i am lucky enough to get a closer job.
I prefar my 50mpg to 25mpg thats one good thing about the diesels lol