Sorry mate - no sympathy. Agree with Hurdy. Regardless of the car or personal circumstances, you did it, take the punnishment. Life ain't fair but rules are rules. We all know them.
Check the dictionary for sympathy, somewhere between sh*t and syphilis.
Now let the dust settle and go and get some advanced driving training to eductate you when it is appropriate to get the best out of this car in a mature and responsible way. The GTI was made for it and deserves that

And by the way, I ain't pious, just older and wiser

Cass