Thanks all- found the adjuster on the top of the shock absorber and sure enough the passenger side was't at the max setting like the drivers side!! Adjusted them to match and just from ptting my weight on each corner it appears to be same level of resistance. Hoping for a dry day tomorrow to see if it feels better on the road.
Have to say this is by far the best car owners forum I have ever used - everyone is really helpful and clearly don't mind helping us new boys out!!
Thanks