gotta laugh , these threads always turn out the same , both camps inherently sticking with what they bought.
I have an ED30 manual , simple reason was money at the time.
Went in for a std GTI , came out ordering a ED30 , for me a compromise had to be made, and of course I could have bought a GTI+DSG
Ultimately
1 : DSG box is not an auto , its far better than that, allows full control and is top of the tree of current cars for this technology. Supreme engineering achievement and it works too

If you can afford it , I suggest you try it.
I know if I had extra cash I would have had DSG , but then if I had more money I wouldnt have a golf lol
2: Manual is slower FACT! However it IS more tactile and the reward is somewhat higher. I guess it must be the fact we are having to 'DO' something. I enjoy a manual , the skill level to drive is higher.
With my previous runabout the E46 M3 , the argument was SMG vs Manual
SMG good , but not a patch on DSG , I could see clear disadvantages of the SMG system for that car , so the manual it was.
For the golf its clear there are no disadvantages that are worth moaning about , and many plus's
So it boils down to
MANUAL = you want more 'feel' and driver involvement + the ability to remap above DSG torque limit

DSG = faster, more expensive but ultimately the best 'auto' box around.
both great , both different
JohnO