Cheers for the responses.
Could I get the an ecu and key from the breakers and then just swap the chip from within the key with mine?
Len - I have tried everything mate and the ecu relay was the first thing I tried as I have had that problem before (see the early post on the huge post about golfs cutting out and oil light flashing!!!).
The story is....car was running fine, left it for 4 days and then when I came to use it, it just wouldnt start. It turns over, has plenty of spark and fuel is cutting through. Changed leads and dizzy cap as I have never done them, and tried all the usual relays. Took it to local garage and no faults came up on diagnostic. They had it for a week and tried various things and managed to get it running. Then when they were driving it was running really rough and you could only build up speed very gradually or it would die if put under any load. They turned it off and now all it does it turn over.
So I thought the only option to at least get a diagnosis and get the car back on the road (buses and trains arent good!!) would be to take it to the stealers. They cant look at it until tomorrow so will wait and see. MAy not be ecu I am just investigating options in case it is.
Len - where did you look at getting the ecu for £80??