My circumstances are changing later this year, as a Frank junior is joining the scene in October. Now I know a hatchback can easily still work for a growing (starting!) family, but we also have a dog to fit in the car somewhere and I'm erring towards an estate.
I've had my eye on a petrol BMW for a while, so a contender currently is to move to a BMW 330i touring. I can still chose a manual if I want to in that car also but I could be open to going auto if I don't think I will miss manual too much.
The 340i touring could be an option too (33k after discounts, although auto only), but with my sensible hat the 330i would probably be quite enough (even though only a 4 pot these days) and hopefully give similar or better in gear performance as my DTUK GTD. That inline 6 though...

Now, the R Estate wasn't really in my thinking - but seeing Wigit is going for one did make me think about it. I'm not won over by it's looks compared the the Hatchback, but in the right spec perhaps it would be worth looking at too. It's also interesting that the R has bigger boot space than the 3 touring - which I thought would be the other way round!
Other contenders I've pretty much ruled out are the A4 Avant (petrol engine choices aren't great IMO, with the 250bhp offering looking a bit overpriced), similarly the Mercedes C class estate petrol engines are limited to a 180bhp or the 360bhp C450 - and nothing in the middle.
Some other marques don't even offer petrol - looking at you VW!!
Other than that, a bit further down the line I could see myself going hybrid or full electric one day. The first crop of hybrid german cars don't seem to offer much just yet, but surely it's the future? The Tesla model X or S look promising too.