Update....pleasantly surprised in all honesty, low-key affair in car-park which I said was fine with me.
Car came with two leads MDI to iPod and MDI to Lightning (iPhone 5), was told by one salesman it would only come with £20 of fuel, came with a full-tank though, tidy :-)
Correct about the safety-kit though (none as standard but you can buy them for around £25) and going back to pick-up free top-up oil over the weekend (service-department closed at time of handover).
New wheels going on tomorrow, loving it already !