Cheers for the info guys. I was about to order an A3 1.4, as a sensible car, but I went on a track day just before in a R35 GTR and I remembered how fun driving could be, and I started thinking about the golf again.
I shall see what the dealer can do, I have a figure in my head, if he can get close then I'll take him up on the offer, if not it's DTD for me. I WILL order something by the end of the month.
Depressingly...I had to get to 40 before I could enjoy all this. Sigh.