I have to say, in light of "being blinded" I too have only really noticed that its range rovers, bmw's etc that seem to blind me.
I say fit your kit see how you get on, if you feel you get a bad response from other road users then do them all a favour and do the right thing.
As for what kits to go for look for any H7 hid kit but don't go cheap because cheap ones tend to fail and you will find that they will flicker/blink when you first put them on while they warm up. Also the lower the "K" the more blue they appear the higher the "K" the whiter they appear e.g 4000k-12000k.
Also bare in mind that you will have to cut holes in the back of your headlights.
Good luck
