I'm not sure if it's because I am buying brand new that they are having to 'factory order' but it's not like I requested any other toys to it.....I've kept the spec totally standard....still it's nice to know it's going to be that fresh the car!! 
Well he said he would keep me updated, but to be honest I am getting impatient (in an excited way)..........I just want my new car....now!!! 
Blimey! Getting impatient after a week!? Take a look at some of the early posts in this section, some waited up to 7 months! It'll be worth the wait mate.
Welcome to the forum. It was an 8 month wait for me

but yes, it was worth the wait and waiting times seem to have improved significantly since then (ordered Nov 2010, took delivery July 2011).
When I was waiting for mine, delays were being caused by dealers taking orders from customers for specific models when they'd already used up the allocation VW had given them for those models. Also, high demand and low availability of certain options were causing delays.
3-4 months is fairly typical of the waiting time you'll be quoted by most VW dealers for a factory order. Once your order has been accepted by the factory and when you've been given a confirmed build week, the build week may be brought forward as your order is for a standard spec car. My build date was moved forward a couple of weeks, so I 'only' had to wait 8 months instead of 8.5(!).