HAHA right - note to newbies like myself - Make sure you check your facts before posting them!!!
Well Mr Sellers... I was all excited about finding WHAT I THOUGHT was the right connector only to get home and check and find it was not, by a mile!!!
The actual connector is right at the back coming through the bulk head, is white plastic, small and two connectors to marry perfectly with your loom connector. Took me ten minutes to find the little bugger though!
Also check to make sure you have a fuse in the foglights fuse thing (6th from the left), i didn't have one in there and spent another ten mins with a multimeter wondering if my loom was faulty. Stuck a fuse in and away they shone. (10amp) I assume cars that originally came without front fogs had no fuse as they didn't need one.
Hopefully this will actually be help now rather than hinderance!!