My experience with DSG has so far been negative. I'm hoping it's a fault - it's in for a potential repair at the moment and the mechatronics are suspected but it's getting a full check over of all the other options before VW will authorise the dealer to replace the mechatronic unit.
So far I feel kinda disconnected from the driving experience.
It moves off a little hesitantly like I have poor clutch control.
Reversing when parallel parking is scary with the car doing nothing then a second later jumping backwards.
Sometimes it stretches the gears so long that I get freaked out - it's like S can be too aggressive and D can be to relaxed and yet schitzo where it suddenly drops a gear or dips the clutch unnecessarily.
Another issue I hate - the accel pedal is disabled when you press the break, and doesn't seem to become active until about 1 second after lifting off the brake, the car wants to roll backwards on even very shallow inclines, so you need to use the handbrake more than with a manual.
Shifting via the paddle shifters seems like an unnecessary effort that doesn't add to the experience. Perhaps on a track you could live out your Forza/GT dreams, but on the road, even a B road, S or D see to cope well enough.
I get some odd behaviour at times - sitting in "economic" D on the motorway, spot a gap in the traffic when changing lanes, press the throttle a fraction (from near off to just a little bit) and the car drops from 6th to 5th, doesn't seem to fully engage the clutch, causing the revs to soar to around 5000 rpm with a huge fanfare, then the gear seems to engage and the car moves forward with all the force you have expect for such a light throttle press - ie not a lot, but you sound like a tool.
I dunno, the whole thing just doesn't feel as responsive, natural, or reliable as a manual, and it doesn't have the grace and ease of use of an automatic.
Between that and the realisation that I really don't need a 3.2 litre V6 engine and 4WD to take the family to Tesco, I'm regretting trading the GTI in on the R32. Maybe things will change if it comes back from the dealer with a new mechatronic unit, but right now - full of regrets. And even if it needs a new mechatronic unit, unless I'm lucky and there's one in VW UK stock, I could be waiting weeks to find out if it's the gearbox that's the problem, or if DSG just isn't for me.