i drive an automatic mk3 vr6..dude its embarassing i kno, but u know wat, they are fineee...u cant get a manual in this part of the world but if therez need for speed u down shift manually...and i dont think ur wife wud be racing other cars..a few problems i noticed in automatic gear boxes, and i aint very mechanical minded, mind u:
-fuel economy is not that great
-the pick up is slower than a manual ofcourse
- the gears seem to resist to ur need somtimes but they catch on shortly
- my gear computer( dunno the technical name) went bust twice, killing my 0-60 time..very slow acceleration..but was soon sorted
-the throttle on the car is trigger happy, so it gives a good work out to the automatic gearbox( but maybe i have a vr6, thats the reason)
-and i agree with saenbeer...though i love the torquey drive even at high speeds:p
and an 8v gti would still look the part!;)..u cant go wrong with a mk3..as in u cant stay wrong till u get it fixed;)..its a love affair, prepare to get jealous wen u wife starts to spend more time with the car than urself!:p
cheers