Having seen the pics and read the write ups I cannot see what all you "R" fans are seeing.
Ok it has AWD but it's an ugly looker compared to the GTI which imo is just right.
A few more horses but a massive big price too!! definitely not for me I love my GTI too much.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!! Personally I think the R is a much better looking car than the GTI - from the front anyway. I think I'd rather have the GTI's exhaust setup, but the R has proper sideskirts instead of a couple of blobs of black plastic, and the front bumper looks better as it has definition at the bottom where as the GTI one just has a huge black area. The grill is slightly TSI-ish... but I like the subtle look.
As for the Recaros, I have the money for them, I just refuse to spend it! I'm having a hard enough time parting with £1700 for the leather, but its a must given the standard seats colour.