I went through the options and made my mind up these are what i came too (why i deleted them my own personal reasons)
It was not a financial one i could have easily got them all but if i felt there was no point why not use that money for something else

5 door (i like the smaller doors easier to get in and out in car parks easier to give friends and family lifts)
DSG (I still cannot get on with it after 4 years of it on our car at work, It makes choices i would not and in traffic i don't feel in control)
Auto hold function (gimmic for people who cannot drive was my view)
Cruise control (I can hold it at a steady speed for hours also it was cheaper retro fitted for the mk5 so i would not be suprised if its the same again. I never seemed to use it much on past cars)
Xenons inc headlamp washers. (nearly did not go for them and was just going for headlamp washers)
Monza Shadows (White worm and corrosion also they do look a bit chav and halfords to me much prefer the monza IIs)
Tyre presure monitor (not the most reliable indicator from experience with my mk5 i can tell before it did.)
ACC (ruled out as will be very costly to replace when the dampers start to go soft around the 50K mark, i will own this car 10+ years i hope)
Winter pack (never since the mid to late 80s have i needed heated washer jets and even then it did not stop the pipes freezing. Heated seats felt no need with cloth had them before with cloth never used them. Headlamp washers i feel i need due to the amount of muck that gets stuck to the front of our mk5 on motorways)
Luxury pack (Folding door mirrors i don't need and i know local youths if the car is parked at the side of the road anywere the folding mirrors attract them to try and pull them off!. Puddle lights i felt no need for i never used them on my other cars in the past. Tilting passenger mirror i quite liked the idea of but when reversing out of my drive i cannot see the gates in that mirror when it tilts i can move and do the job manually if im worried that much)
Storage pack Underseat draws and 2 luggage nets. (I did not seem to use the net on the mk5 and the draws i can live without.)
Metallic paint (simply down to colour choice this one for me)
DAB/DVD satnav/ RCD510/Dynaudio (i thought about it just for the DAB arial especially as come 2012 analogue will be switched off. One of my hobbies is sound quality car audio so i ruled out all audio upgrades as i can do a better job aftermarket.
Telephone prep (Small number of phones it will work with)
Park assist+F&R sensors/Parking sensors/rear view camera(i can park and am able to drive our mk5 fine so cannot see why this will not be the same with our mk6, anyway the sensors flatline far too early)
Side airbag rear seats with seatbelt warning (our mk5 will be the main family car so ruled these out and i would hope i never wish i had them)
Leather (two of the cars i test drove had leather and i liked the smell! but our mk5 at work has leather and its sagged, creased and its gone very shiny it does not look good at all to me and looking at other mk5s it seems a common problem.)
Sunroof (I do like how it lets extra light in to such a dark cabin and it was the last options i crossed off. The reasons were i carry a few 6ft5+ friends often and they can struggle in cars with sunroofs the more headroom the better both front and rear. Also the blind can rattle, + i can crack the rear window to let air in alittle on a 5door.)
All the above are my OWN views everyone elses will be different please no one take offence, thank you.