She's all sorted now!

found another dodgy relay, replaced, and all is perfect. im now only using 4 relays, 1 for fogs, 1 for dip and 2 for main beam. after a bit of country lane action earlier my new lights are fantastic, no more orange glow from the front of my golf, brilliant white light. best i hae seen from standard 60w bulbs!
only mod i might make is still to get the dip on with main beam, then ill sink them into resin!
i'll try and get a pic of them lit up soon
cheers for all your help guys!