I've been there mate. Took me ages to mind my MK5 GTI. Even some of the stuff at the main dealers is absolute tat. It's worth waiting though because there are plenty of well looked after ones about it's just that they get snapped up quickly.
By the way, i've got the elec folding mirrors and they are probably not worth it. They don't fold in very far at all so don't really see the point! Auto dipping passenger door mirror is useful though, has saved me from a curbed alloy more than once........
