i voted for A3 3.2 v6
reasons
- it's a bit more subtle, take the badges off and know one will know if it is a tdi, 1.6, 2.0T or v6
- it's not a R or Gti, to keep the other half happy
- not sure on the 130i. great motor, but the a3 offers similar to the R
- pick up a 3dr (as cheaper i find) and you'll pocket £k's
- left over savings, nice exhuast and some sport springs/ coilovers and treat the other half for something and probably have enough left over for a remap or even go for a DSG ;-)