Thanks for all the input it all helps
An update on the non-existant light. Total frustration led me to do some serious tinkering. Ended up removing the fuse box to discover that someone had cut the signal cable that goes into the back of the ABS relay and bridged it with the live wire so that the light never came on!! How bad is that?! So after a few mins with some connectors and tape i now have a working ABS light!
Thanks for the input. Right I have had the car rescanned and it is showing a rear ABS sensor (obviously installed a duff one or the ABS ring is knackered) and is now showing an ABS pump fault

I have done a lot of research and it appears that sometimes a knackered rear sensor can flag up an ABS pump fault. So im going to go ahead and replace a rear tomorrow and fingers crossed it isnt the pump! Atleast im beginning to get somewhere with all of this.
I dont know why im so desperate to get it working, ive never really had any issues. It will just be nice knowing everything on the car is working 100%. The car does lock up but i have to be braking seriously hard to get the wheels to lock. I guess it would just be nice to know its there incase i need it.