I thought they where the walk me home lights (which is what im talking about). synnea said he turned his coming home option off (which to my understnading is when you get out the car and lock it the lights stay on for x amount of time) but left the leaving home on. Not sure what the latter is.
Im getting myself confused.
comming home lights is the function were you leave the light switch in auto position and it keeps the light on for x amount of time when you get out and lock the door
(if you dont want this to happen simply turn the light switch to off

)
leaving home lights are simply activated when you unlock the car, this cannot be turned off even with the light switch left in off/non-auto position.
unless u have a vagcom i assume.