on much closer examination the motor has launched a rod out the back side of the block. from number 4 cyl right inline with the exhaust and also right by the transfer case hence makeing it look like oil was pissing from that, also been semi paranoid about transfer case fail dosen't help.
the question i'm asking myself is WTF was glowing down there, i know the exhaust glows very well under the heat wrap but din't look like that at the time. anyway will know much more tomorrow, Tools are back at home and car is in garage so few hours in morning and engine and box will be out, tempted to fit spare gearbox anyway.