DarnPiston - you will probably be OK with the front end 16V kit, although you'd do well to check your ARB diameter.
For the back end you definitely DO NOT want the Syncro/Rallye set, as they accommodate the superior independent rear suspension. As such the bush kits are completely different.
I'd also suggest checking the rear ARB diameter, to see that it's the same as the specified one on the lesser Golfs - IIRC it could well be a little larger.