Can you alter the poly mount to reduce its effect, like chopping off the 'fingers'?
I drilled holes in my MKIV one, in summer you couldn't tell, but the vibration was unbearable in the winter and that helped get a compromise... t'was a diesel mind, so you'd expect more vibration than a petrol.
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