Bloody hell and I thought I was a little judgemental from time to time.
All the guy's asked is how he can adjust how his car handles, which is a fairly reasonable question to ask on a motoring forum.
He's not asking you to make judgements about his driving skill, or behaviour on roads or tracks.
The biggest problem, as already outlined, is the pig-iron out front - you've got the wrong car for it to handle well. It's designed to sit on der Autobahn really.
Fit a stiffer rear ARB and see how you go, but really get a car renowned for handling rather than one that's infamous for not handling (yes, that's me judging your choice of car, rather than your driving).