As stated previously i haven't the time or space to do any work myself at present. Anyway driving to the VW specialist this morning, i suspected the sound was actually more from the rear (different roads and first time i've detected it being rearward). So pulled over dropped the rear seats and sure enough it does sound more rearward.
Test drive by mechanic at specialist highlighted more noise swerving one way than the other and definitely sound from rear - agaoin first day loading one side has made a difference. Suspected it was rear offside. Back at garage jacked up front corners and engaged drive - no noise from either front bearing, and minimal noise from gearbox

Rear corners jacked up, spun wheels and some slight noise from offside rear - sounded a bit dry n gritty.
So one rear wheel bearing to sort out next Tuesday - while they have it on the jacks i've asked them to change the gearbox oil, since they can do that whilst doing the bearing at no additional labour cost. So about £90 all in, no gearbox or differential issues - happy chappy provided Tuesday night is a quiet one

Thanks for all the help - been a bit of a long diagnostic session !!