I consciously went for an R32 without the recaro seats as, having experienced the similar bucket seats in the RS4, the leather wears quite quickly. You constantly have to rub against the side and thigh bolsters to get in and out. For people who are generally big (I'm 6'4'' but not fat), my bottom is too large to sit on them comfortably on long journeys.
As far as the 3 door vs 5-door, I would never go for a 3-door as it just isn't practical enough for me. Having said this, I know plenty of people who just wouldn't even consider a 5-door.