Had a look with my mate from work. He's as baffled as me now.
So here's what we've found.
Defo the gears are being selected OK
Defo the clutch pedal action (spring and feel) seems OK apart from the last few % of movement
when you release the clutch it seems different (at the engage point, like it's not landing)
There's no drive at all we think getting to the box, the box is silent when you release the clutch.
One other thing we noticed....
If you turn the engine off with the clutch dis-engaged (pedal to the floor) you get a strange grumble/noise from the gearbox area as the engine slows down to a stop. This noise is the same if the cars in gear or neutral when you turn it off, but it only does it with the clutch in and only just as the engine stops.
We both thing it must be clutch related now, but not convinced!
Cheers
Ade