OK folks .. just registered, so a complete newbie. I'd be very grateful if a few clued up peeps could answer me a few questions

A bit of history, I currently drive an 06 Subaru Forester STi (litchfield performance pack to 330/330

) and have come from 2 previous WRX's (both with PPP).
I'm moving house soon and will be able to walk to work. I've made the sensible decision to sell the Forester

as I don't see the point in having it sitting on the driveway 5 days a week. It's a fantastic car but much more suited to my old commute of 15 mins B-roads, 10 mins through town.
I want something a bit easier on the wallet, a bit 'classier' to sit in and a bit smaller. It'll be mostly used for pootling through town, the odd weekend blast and the occasional long haul.
So I've arrived at the Golf GTI. Did think about a Megane R26 but it's probably a bit hardcore for what I'm looking for (too similar to the Scooby) and it's French

I like to drive so want a manual box (I know, I know a bit of a luddite) and it'll be no surprise looking at my last 3 cars that I really don't care about being fully loaded. I'd rather have a TomTom than integrated Sat Nav, I hate loading in 6 CD's so happy with 1, not too fussed about leather (It can be slippy/hot/cold and poor quality).
I only really want a 3 door, manual, 18's, a centre armrest, maybe heated seats and possibly Xenon's

I have used the search and tried to do some research but it's better asking owners than some review by 1 person.
So questions, questions ...
1. I have about 6K to put down as a deposit, looking at drivethdeal and brokersforcars this seems to get me in a GTI or Edition 30 with PCP deal over 48 months for about £250 a month.
I want to keep my payments down to around this amount.
Does this sound about right? So I seem to have a choice, GTI (with a few more options) or ED30 (less options).
2. Would a stealer match the deal these online brokers offer (about 1K off both)?
3. Interior quality, I hate rattles, I want a nice quiet rattle free environment on cruise.
Is this the a Golf GTI/ED30?4. What are the differences between the GTI and the ED30. I can figure out it's some red interior trim, a few badges, bodykit and obviously the extra 30 BHP or so. Also the 18" design alloys. Is there anything else I have missed?
5. Can of worms time. Is there really much difference between the ED30 and the 'normal' GTI on a day to day basis?
6. I am guessing that the ED30 just has a different ECU map to the GTI. Could a dealer (if they were so inclined) just load the ECU maps from the ED30 into the GTI and voila a 230 BHP GTI?
7. I'm used to and like bucket/sports seats. Are the standard tartan seats in the GTI any good? How do the they compare to the ED30 seats. Are they the same seats as the GTI just with leather bolsters etc? Are the ED30 seats heated as standard?
.. so assuming I'm correct in my PCP calculations I have 2 options to consider.
a. 3 door, manual, ED30, silver/black, centre armrest, rear tints
b. 3 door, manual, GTI, 18's, Candy White, Xenons, winter pack, centre armrest, rear tints, possibly leather (and eventually Revo/Bluefin)
Thoughts? Opinions?
Thanks in advance ..
Avalyn
