Really sorry to hear about your nightmare acwats.... if you ordered in February and it STILL hasn't arrived.. sounds like someone, somewhere f***ed-up big time. I wouldn't be surprised if your order somehow got put to the bottom of the pile.
I ordered mine in early June and was told it would take 16 weeks (which works out to be this week)... and have just been told that it is in transit to UK now, so should have it in 1-2 weeks.

How can a car ordered in June arrive earlier than one ordered in Feb??? ...mine's a basic GTi with a few goodies on it.. if you ordered DSG, maybe there's a shortage of the DSG gearboxes, and they are giving priority to dealers??
Either way.. good luck.