lol, mine doesn't feel like that at all, its got 113k on it, but never driven one with standard dampers so I don't know, I havn't driven it for 6 months but I remember it cornering and riding better than my then standard bora. If you dont want a hard ride but want good handling I'd say either just uprate the shocks for a good gas set or get the eibach springs as they are very comfortable and maybe some bilstein short piston B4 dampers, the weitec suspension kit at £250 is meant to be very very good as well its made by KW. What wheels are you running? I have 14s on mine so there will always be loads of comfort even with harder suspension, the other important thing is to make sure bushes are in good order as they can give a harsh ride.