Hi, i've fallen in love with my girlfriends mk3 and am seriously considering dropping into the VAG pool

but after being used to my 206 i need something quick, handles well, and has an excellent options package (like i think the VR6 has leather heated seats?)
have been told the vr6 is nose heavy cos of the lump, and looking at the times sheets in the back of PVW the 1.8T's seem to be the better car, but i don't believe all i hear and don't believe all i read, i'm not that naive

so i thought i'd ask the people who really know (you guys

) Can you help me out here? hopefully then i'll round on this forum more often

Cheers
Dan