thanks for the replies everyone, i was really really mad last night and needed to vent...
then Mr San Miguel helped me forget about things LOL
i havent got any quotes yet (it only happened last night!!

), but its a complete spray of the rear bumper, and i might say that the "key" mark down the passenger side was done at the same time...
*ive been meaning to get that done for ages!!*
theres a dent in the boot lid, not very big, but its there.....its not too bad really, it couldve been a lot worse, especially if the pillar holding my gate up fell on the car aswell (i built it and its solid)
so all in all

what freaked the missus out was i DIDNT even shout..... i was well pissed tho'.
to answer some questions... i always check neutral when i get into a car/van, its just a habit....
also, when on a hill....always in gear...
and Randomjord...youre soooo cruel LOL

wicked sense of humour mate LOL
So, my mates Dad works in a body shop ( ive just found out!!) so im taking it to him to look at on Saturday,
if things go well, i might get some other things "tidied "up when im at it
i still think most women drivers are well ditsy tho', sorry girls its true.....
ive got some pics somewhere....to follow