Not 100% sure on the revs question, but its hunting for some reason, they are usually fixed on the RPM with no wavering at all so something is amiss.
With the ABS, some people

remove the ABS bulb if there is a fault within the ABS system so that the light doesn't come on and stay on. It should light for about 3-5 secs (from memory) when the car is initially turned on and the other warning lights come on at the same time. Do the others come on OK? If they don't, you may simply have a power supply fault at the dash. Secondly, you can always test the ABS by taking it on a quiet dry stretch of road and slamming the anchors on, not sure how the salesman will react to this, it would definately tell you if the ABS was working and doesn't just ned a new bulb.
If in doubt, walk away or talk them down by lots of £'s. Another option is and RAC/AA independant check of the car on the undrestanding that the garage repair ALL faults found with the car prior to purchase.
HTH, someone else should be able to sort your RPM hunting problem out.