just been to the breakers and ther was a 90 spec gti there, so i got the relay from position 10 on its fuse box, it was a 53, and my front fogs still dont work, out of intrest in the position 10 before was a plastic thing with a grey wire going into it, what do i do with that wire once the relay takes its place? also why else wouldnt it work now i have the relay, i have new bulbs, the relay, everythigs plugged in so now im confused