Same prob happened on my 16v,the problem started out by car not going into reverse,removed and stripped the box,was lucky as one of the rivet heads had sheared but luckily missed everything and lodged itself onto the magnet in the box,cant remember the part no though sorry RichandHazel but the kit cost me ?37.40+VAT.. from VAG the rivets are easy enough to remove just grind off the head and punch out with a 10mm punch,the reason box wouldnt go into reverse was another prob though,just replaced all bearings gaskets etc,2 litres on synthetic oil and she`s as good as new..You could replace the rivets with high tensile bolts but you only have about 3-4mm of clearance on one side of the diff/casing...so you would need to get the bolt heads machined down to clear..