Be interested to see where you have your seat set Andrew. I'm constantly moving mine too find a comfortable position after the dealer ignored my request to not move my seat position under any circumstances due to my back issue.
To be honest bud, I find I'm also tweaking it. The wife uses it occasionally and I'm 6'1" and she's 5'1", so she has to move pretty much everything. Just wish the MK7 came with the electric memory seats as an option without having to spec leather.
In any case, my steering wheel is right in (towards the dash) and just down a touch. My seat (fore and and aft) is positioned so that my legs are bent at a round 20-30° angle on the pedals with my lower back right against the seat back, and the back rest adjusted to about 20-25° off vertical, so that with my back against the seat backrest, I can outstretch an arm and rest my wrist on the top of steering wheel at the 12 O'clock position whilst still keeping my back against the seat. Seat height is set about 8 pulls off the lowest setting. Finally my headrest is adjusted so that the top of the headrest is about level with the top of my head.
Not sure if that is the correct positioning or not, but feels very comfortable.