alarms and immobilizers are an arse if you dont know what went where, there designed to have you stumped incase your a car thief!!, id try an insurance approved alarm installer, pop it round to em to show em what your on about and theyll more than likely be able to help, if not it normally means alot of trial and error tests or testing every thing with a decent multimeter to try and find out what each wire does when the alarm is armed/disarmed