*Update* Well its been a while since I've been on here. Been busy sorting the house out, and searching high and low over different forums trying to figure out the issues on my GTI. But, i can safely say i have finally got to the bottom of the issue. Turned out to be a mixture of two things:
1. Poorly installed (factory fitted) passenger side top mount
2. Subframe bolts loose
Ended up buying a set of uprated ECS Audi TT top mounts, complete with bearings, and also the ECS replacement subframe bolts & spacers.
The difference the top mounts have made in un-real. The steering feels much heavier, more planted on the road. Gone is the feeling that the strut is about to 'smash' through the dash board over every bump. Finally, the subframe bolt mod has solved the feeling that the wheel is slipping, and traction is much improved.
But yeah, if anybody is / or has experienced any of the issues i have mentioned above, i would start by checking your subframe bolts. All of mine where very loose, got a good 1/2 - 3/4 turn on each bolt!
I would also recommend going for the strut top mounts as a performance mod, car feels great through the twists now.