Much to the relief of no doubt everyone on the forum... I have made up my mind to go with the 330d if I can get the right numbers sorted this weekend..
I think I will get a better PX price than Audi too.. and its the perfect all round car for me really given its a daily drive of some dual carriageway and some B roads..
PLus I don't want to sell the fiat coupe which I would need to do if I bought an RS3.. this way I can keep it.
Sorry to have tried everyones patience

Oh, next issue - colour and spec. Well spec is easy - M Sport + package with the bigger brakes, Professional Nav and heated seats, that's pretty much it. Love the Saddle brown leather and given almost every 3 series has black leather, I want something different. Thinking Black or White over saddle brown leather maybe, or white with red leather..