This is all subjective
I personally had a look at the R and Audi S3 and thought the GTI was nicer looking and better for my needs. It was also lighter and not 4WD so all in all it worked for me/us. I think the R32 and Mk7R have a "thing" about them that i can't put my finger on but its not to my liking, but not sure what it is, perhaps its the 4 exhaust or the deeper sides skirts. I don't dislike them at all, but if i had to pick a car in a line up, it would still be the GTi. imo