As I said, rear wheel drive is not the cause - it may be a small factor - a few years ago a friend of mine was driving his Impreza STi PPP along the A1 (at what he claims was 70 mph) in the wet... suddenly the car let go at the back and steered itself into the central reservation... the major factor we reckon was that his tyres whilst legal had ~2mm tread on the rears and about 3mm on the front.
Therefore, the reason, I think the BMW span off was probably because the rear tyres were worn to the point that they just couldn't ship the water fast enough and the fronts could - (1) they're narrower (2) given the BMW being rear wheel drive and quite powerful they would be more worn than the fronts...
The Golf, (at the same point was going much slower ~20mph) if it were going at the same speed, with the rear tyres more worn than the fronts... the same result is just as likely...