The internet itself is very quiet, as there are lots and lots of clubs with members on Facebook and the like.
Myself and JV were saying a few weeks back that the whole VW community is quiet, and the amount of show cars that are showing up without a build thread on the regular forums is immense.
Take a look at the classifieds on here, clubGTi, Edition38 etc etc. Years ago you would be bumping threads up on a daily basis due to the internet traffic, but these days you'll be lucky to get to the bottom of a page in a week! Where are all of these people selling? Gumtree, eBay, Facebook, who knows, but it doesn't seem to involve the forums.
doesn't any1 arrange things on here this doesn't seem like a forum for mk3 owners sorry if i missing something but all i see it mk4 onwards.
Do any meets happen for the mk3 gti at all all i ever hear is just vw meets surely there is enough mk3 to do a local meet somewhere 
Have a go at organising one. I try to rally the troops for the mainstream ones, but sometimes people fail to turn up, plus we have to remember the VW community is massive, and not all allegiances are pledged to GolfGTI.