These experiences with you guys are seriously putting me off buying another VW. I currently have a Scirocco that I am very pleased with, but I am eyeing up the Golf GTI seriously as my next car.
The more I read about the frustrations that you are having with VW, the less it makes me want to buy from them. It is a LOT of money, and it should be an exciting experience, you want to feel good about the whole thing, but it ends up being frustrating and stressful. This is not how it should be.
Yet BMW, to use Bear as an example here, are welcoming the opportunity to sell you a car and seemingly do all they can to encourage you into their showroom.
Is this down to supply and demand? They don't care about anyone as they know somebody will always be willing to buy. Customers may start voting with their feet though and going elsewhere if this continues.
I am very disappointed for you guys. 
I too have a Scirocco, and I will probably have had it a minimum of 3 months beyond expectations!
I have liked my Scirocco, but build quality doesn’t seem quite as good as I expect from a Golf, standard equipment levels on the GTI/GTD look great next to the Scirocco and performance/economy increases of the GTI and GTD over their predecessors are more than marginal.
If it wasn’t for the 1 series being incompatible due to my dislike of its looks I’d have considered putting my business their way. VW dealers are caught in the middle a bit too – they’re trying to sell something and are being let down by their supplier, and in the main they get the brunt of the customer’s wrath. They’re getting stuck with ever depreciating fixed p/x while the wait for the new car drags out.
I’m not that sympathetic with the dealer, they are in the best position to moan to VW and get noticed, I wonder how many of them are doing so and how soon VW will sit up and notice. The UK is the biggest new car market in the EU and VAG have quite a market share here. It’s about time they treated us like the golden goose that we are.
Standard Golf customers aren’t waiting daft lengths of time for their cars, so it seems like a self-manufactured issue affecting GTIs and GTDs. I do wonder whether VW think that by making us wait even longer, they are making the car more desirable, not less – much like those arsehole performers that make you wait hours beyond schedule for them to come on at a gig “because they can”.