The very two cars i'm looking at!
A little difficult to compare the two, as the R will be more comparable to the S3.
I think everyone would agree that Auto Lights/Wipers should be standard on a car costing £32k, although it does at least get Heated Seats & Washer Jets as standard.
Having run a Mk4 25th Anniversary GTI for 111,000 miles I have a soft spot for the GTI, and a recent Test Drive confirmed i'd be more than happy to own another GTI!